Cutting the Ties
Cut the Ties That Hold You Back
Release the cords of old pain and programming, and reclaim your freedom to live, love, and grow as your true self.
Cutting the Ties That Bind
When the crap hits the fan, don't get rid of the crap, get rid of the fan.
You need to feel into the crap in order to release the fan.
Cutting the Ties That Bind (CTT) helps you do just that. It’s a powerful, intensive cord-cutting process that clears the hidden emotional ties, triggers, and limiting beliefs that have shaped your life.
Instead of staying stuck in old patterns, CTT helps you release what no longer serves you so you can reclaim your energy, your freedom, and your sense of self.
How does CTT work?
CTT uses meditation, symbols, and dream analysis to tap into your subconscious and heal the roots of emotional and energetic patterns.
This process helps you gently let go of the attachments, expectations, and old programming that keep you trapped in the past.
It’s not always easy — you may feel emotions rise as you release deep-seated ties — but it is profoundly healing.
Through this work, you begin to clear the “crap” (old wounds, outdated beliefs) and dismantle the “fan” (the structures that keep those patterns spinning). What’s left is a clean emotional slate and space for a brighter, freer future.
Why healing matters
From the moment you were born, you needed unconditional love and acceptance — unconditional love from your mother, support from your father. If those needs weren’t fully met, you may still carry patterns of pain, fear, or unworthiness rooted in your earliest experiences.
Research shows that 95% of our behaviors come from impressions formed in the first five years of life, before we had words to explain them.
These early wounds can unconsciously shape your choices, relationships, and self-image for a lifetime. By working with your dreams, I help you identify these patterns — so you can finally release the ties that keep you repeating the same old stories.
Cutting the ties with your father can build confidence and open doors in your career. Cutting ties with your mother can help you respond to life with more peace, positivity, and joy.
While CTT may bring up strong emotions as you heal, it does not mean cutting people out of your life — it clears only the unseen energy cords that keep you stuck, so you can relate to others from a place of true emotional and spiritual freedom.
How your dreams guide the way
Your dreams are a gateway to the subconscious — revealing the beliefs and patterns hidden beneath your everyday awareness. In CTT, we use these dream messages in daily meditations to help you let go of outdated attachments and free yourself from childhood triggers.
It’s normal for strong emotions to rise as you heal — grief, anger, shame, sadness — these feelings are part of releasing what no longer serves you. Think of it as cleansing your emotional palette so you can reconnect with your true essence.
Through this work, you reclaim your power and create space for healthier relationships, new opportunities, and a greater sense of clarity and freedom.
CTT doesn’t erase your past — it transforms it, so you can live with more ease and authenticity.
Reclaim your true self
If you feel ready to release what no longer serves you, take the first step toward emotional freedom and spiritual clarity with CTT.
The process then unfolds in these steps:
1. Initial Meditation (45 minutes): Identify who you are cutting ties with.
2. Daily Practice: A short meditation you’ll do twice a day, supported by a personal list of positive and negative traits tied to that person.
3. Weekly Check-ins (45 minutes): We’ll meet once a week to discuss progress and review your submitted dreams, using them to guide your healing work.
4. Ongoing Support: You’ll have text access to me if strong emotions arise between sessions, with phone calls available if needed.
5. Closing Meditation: A final practice to complete the process and integrate your healing.
What to Expect from the CTT Process
Before we begin, you’ll fill out a short intake form so I can channel on your situation, then we’ll meet for a 20-minute intro call to answer any questions.
soul notes from the trail
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I'm a big fan of dream analysis. I've been recording my dreams for 8 years religiously. I always knew they were important but I just didn't understand the message they were trying to tell me. I would look up symbols on the internet but nothing seemed to resonate with me. Once I discovered the Aisling school method of dream analysis, the method Janet uses, I was convinced and truly believe now that every single one of my dreams has something to say to me! Then came the CTT work. I came with a healthy ounce of skepticism, wondering if I would really feel different afterwards. The answer is yes. It wasn't an easy ride for me, cutting ties with Mom. It was challenging and much more difficult than I initially thought it would be. But the rewards were more than I could have ever imagined. Anxieties that I had lived with for years disappeared. Triggers that I had lived with for years disappeared. It wasn't that I was now able to deal with the triggers, it was that the triggers were actually gone. I am beyond grateful for this. The way I feel about myself and the way I think about life has changed dramatically. And slowly, changes are occurring in my life that might never have occurred had I not done the CTT work. I recommend it highly. I believe that every single person can benefit from this work. Working with Janet has been instrumental in understanding my dreams and clearing my triggers. She has a unique channeling ability that flows as she dissects and explains my dreams to me. She is caring, conscientious, professional and brings a huge slice of humor to her sessions, which puts me at ease, because through her humor and wit, I recognize that I'm dealing with a real, true, authentic person. Thank you, Thank you.
-Sharon G.
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I LOVE JANET!! Janet has been guiding me through unlocking the keys and hidden messages in my dreams for over a year. I'm so grateful for her skilled and experienced insights into the dream world and beyond. She brings a sense of humor and old soul wisdom to each session which is truly priceless. Because I'm looking to gain insights from my dreams, healing, and inspiration, I've got Janet on my calendar for regular sessions!
-Erin O’Neill
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As a federal government careerist, I'm a newbie into the world of dreams and spiritual healing work. Janet has helped me to understand my dreams in a way that gives me a deeper connection to my purpose and to what my higher self is trying to show me.
-Sully Winters
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I am working with Janet doing the Cutting the Ties (CTT) program. Janet has amazing insight when looking at dreams. She honors our connection and brings encouragement and enlightenment to our conversations through the divine. I am very appreciative of her time and dedication to help interpret what my guides are asking from me.
- Stacia Beckinger
set yourself free
Cutting the Ties That Bind
Price $2,000
If you’re ready to release what no longer serves you and reclaim your energy, let’s begin together.
FAQ
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No — CTT does not cut people out of your life. It clears the invisible energetic cords that bind you to painful patterns and past trauma, freeing you to relate to others from a place of clarity and peace.
These cords are real, though unseen, and once released, you may feel more like your authentic self than you have since childhood. -
CTT focuses only on releasing negative energy ties formed in childhood — the ones that drain you, block your growth, and keep you stuck in old emotional patterns.
Healthy, supportive connections remain untouched, while harmful cords are cleared so your energy can flow freely, allowing you to move forward with confidence and creativity. -
CTT is about changing your energy, not the other person's. However, the effects of cutting the ties goes beyond the emotional realm and manifests as a change in the way you relate to the other person as well as the way they relate to you.
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Many people feel lighter, freer, and more balanced, as if a weight has been lifted. You might notice fewer emotional triggers, greater perspective, and a sense of calm where there was once overwhelm.
It’s normal to feel a range of emotions as you process — be gentle with yourself, practice self-care, and allow the positive shifts to unfold.
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Yes — if a soulmate connection is causing you stress or blocking your growth, you can release the negative cords tied to that relationship. CTT doesn’t end the relationship itself; it simply clears the emotional baggage so you can relate from a healthier, more authentic place without carrying old patterns forward.
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CTT is an emotional and psychic house cleaning carrying away unwanted baggage or toxic relationshipsthat are no longer healthy for you. It is different for every person and the process can take anywherefrom 6 to 10 weeks, it's all individual.
You landed here for a reason
If you feel called to release the invisible ties that hold you back, trust that.
Cutting the Ties That Bind can help you transform old patterns, deepen your spiritual practice, and step into a place of profound peace and fulfillment.
Your soul already knows you are ready.